10 Dating Rules For Older Folks

When going on a date, it is important to make a good first impression. Here are a few golden rules to following when dating offline.

Keep your cellular phone off or put in silent mode, do not answer it unless you are getting any emergency call. You look like a self-centered fool when you answer your phone calls on your date. This is true even your date permits you. Then it is because he or she is polite and you are not. So, keep your mobile phone off, it is better on you few first dates.

Never smoke in presence of others unless they also smoke. Make sure where you are smoking no one is eating. You look like fool when you smoke in presence of your date and others are not smoking. If you feel the strong urge and smoke, go outside.

Do not brag or talk about yourself too much. Bragging is always disliked and puts your date off. Better show some interest in your date and their likings and hobbies. Once you do these things regularly you will develop good social skills. Always try to compliment them in one way or other. This is the best practice, even if you find your date is not right for you.

Dress smart and casual for the first date. Girls -- make sure you don't go for dating with jewelry. You look sometime cheap and stupid with them. Be nice and sober, that is the best way. Boys -- never curse or utter anything foul. This indicates most of the time stupidity and ignorance. You can find better term in your vocabulary to describe things.

Be respectful - Mind this that most girls prefer to be respected though sometime they look so simple and surprised, they are quite intelligent and bright and may few steps ahead of you. More you consider them as equals more the chances for you to find your companion.

Boys like girls that show interest in their hobbies or achievements and mostly prefer to have attention paid to their achievements and interests.

Girls like eye contact. This helps them know that you are paying attention to what they have to say or share.

Don't pig out, eat gently, not like a glutton. Leave the table hungry should be your policy. After eating you can go for other venue like coffee shop, dancing or even a drink. If fact your varying behavior is displayed in different venue. If your date starts swinging after a drink, better be careful next time.

Boys - when you have enjoyed your date, at the end of that evening say thanks. Carrying small gifts like flowers to her doorstep next day is a very good idea. What counts that you have thought of her after date. Leave your phone number in hand written card, so she can call you if she wants.

Girls - never be cheap and too available at the end of your first date. Make your thoughts clear nicely. Never ask him if he would call you again, speak your mind to.

Finally the most important golden rule of dating offline is; never discuss about our old boy friends or girl friends, ex wives or ex husband in your first few dates.

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